Bookends

I'm sure it comes from not being good at conversing
But I just can't talk to store clerks very well. I wish people wouldn't try.

I understand both sides I think. Clerks want an escape, a way to break their monotony. Talking to them will sort of break it. But me, I hate it. I wish they'd shush. Maybe other clerks do as well?
we want to be done with the exchange and transaction asap. We have standing around to do. Just want to get the job done, and go home. Pointless interaction is pointless.

On their side, maybe they just want to relieve the tension? Or have some form of social interaction, that we all seem to crave. Curse our instincts.

But it's all overused one liners and throwaway questions. They think they're being funny, or considerate. But they're not.

So much time has been wasted, why should I waste more time bothering with pleasantries?

If someone wants a McDouble, they'll come back, no matter what I say to them.

I don't boycott restaurants for bad service. I boycott restaurants for bad food.

(and bad marketing decisions)

On occasion I notice sincerity, and something original pops up. I do enjoy that. And I sometimes find something appropriate and worthwhile to say to the clerks. Sometimes.